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If you’re an adult looking for friends, join a pick-up soccer league, or a book club, or take an art class. Making friends as an adult is hard, but, there are ways if you are determined- even during COVID. Tinder, or Bumble, or Plenty of Fish, or — heaven forbid — The League, is not the place. The problem is, these guys aren’t confused. They know that already.
They are on dating apps to get casual ***- which is fine- but they are lying about what they want in order to get it, and that is a huge red flag. The way they use friendship is meant to disarm potential dates, and also provide them with a defense.
It’s meant to make women think that they want to actually get to know them as a person first, and that their personhood matters. In a sea of men who will immediately text you ‘Tits?’ as a first message, that’s important. Everyone likes to be around people who make them feel valued. After three years of first dates, it’s a relief whenever I find someone who doesn’t make me feel like a piece of meat. It makes me work a little harder on dates with that person because it’s a rare respite from how dating usually makes me feel.
It also provides them with an excuse, should they ever be asked to do anything. If they walk into the first date and realize that they don’t find a woman physically attractive, they can say “I was just looking for friends”, and then do the slow fade with limited conflict. If the girl ever wants a relationship after months of casual ***, he can immediately say, “I was just looking for friends”. It allows them to take no responsibility for emotional labour in the relationship — which is still required, by the way, in friendships, casual relationships, and just in most situations where you want someone else to like you. Even if all you do is stay in bed together, you want a partner who is considerate of your needs, someone who thinks about what you might like, someone who brings new ideas to the table, someone who remembers your name and asks you how your day was. All of that is emotional labour, but calling it a ‘friendship’ even when they won’t actually be friends with you, is their way to get out of doing any of that if their partner ever dared to ask for more from them.
It’s a sign of someone who will lie to you to make things easier for them, even if it wastes your time. It’s a sign of someone who can’t communicate what they want. Truth and communication are core tenets of any enjoyable relationship, even if it’s just casual. You don’t want a *** partner who lies about their STD results or who can’t tell you what they want in bed or if they’re accidentally catching feelings.
Don’t tell me you want “friends” in a totally inappropriate place. Don’t tell me you want “friends” when what you mean is “I want a booty call who will ask absolutely nothing of me ever”. Ask for what you want. Be clear. Don’t bullshit. You’re much more likely to find what you’re looking for that way.
That said, I do have to acknowledge that this might not all come from a place of malice, but also from a place of self-preservation. It’s easier to say you’re fine with “just being friends” when someone rejects you. It makes you feel like less of a loser to play it cool and pretend like you didn’t really want that person that much anyway. It can mask your embarrassment and your hurt. It’s why people say “let’s just be friends” when they break up, to save face, even if they both know they’ll block each other’s numbers and avoid each other like they’re walking nuclear waste.
Dating apps can make anyone feel like they’re disposable. Modern dating encourages you to build an impenetrable shell around yourself just to survive it. I don’t blame people for defaulting to that highly toxic state of perpetual apathy about every person they date until the other person caves and shows real interest. If you get rejected 20 times in a few months in real life, it sucks. If you get rejected 100 times in the span of a week, and do that every week for years, it’s bound to take its toll. It burns you out.
It’s not like I don’t also have my own unhealthy coping mechanisms. This process has beaten me down too. The only thing is, I try not to let the ways that I cope give people a false sense of what they’re getting into.
Friendship is not a scapegoat, and pretending it’s the goal on a dating app is not fooling anyone. It may be the faster way to get what you want, but I promise that the *** will be better if you learn to communicate directly without twisting the truth.

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